If you’ve got a wedding coming up in your future, you are probably very excited, and also very stressed.
You may have heard of the term ‘Bridezilla’ to describe brides who become snappish and difficult and demanding. This happens to them because of the stress of trying to plan a major event with really no event planning experience to speak of. For the sake of your mood and your sanity, don’t try to plan your wedding by yourself.
A wedding is only one day (and you’ll probably only have one wedding). It’s only one chance for the perfect day so getting help to make it perfect is smart.
You aren’t an event planner! Would you be comfortable stepping in if you were asked to play goalie in a professional soccer match? Probably not, assuming that you aren’t a professional soccer player! If you are having a wedding with more than 50 guests, this is a large scale event.
Do you really want to be preparing for a new life with your husband simultaneously while trying to turn yourself into an event planner all for one day’s worth of event? It doesn’t make sense! Get help with the preparation and planning. This is smart, not weak. But be careful who you enlist to help:
Family Member You’ll likely have no shortage of people coming forward to offer to help, or even run the show. Generally this is not advisable. It’s better to keep it so that your family and friends can celebrate with you rather than expecting them to do the work related to your big day.
Mothers of brides and grooms often are excited about being able to do the planning. It can be hard to tell them no, but really you don’t want them to do this.
Several pitfalls are possible when mom plans the wedding. If they liked the wedding they had, they will try to reproduce it. If they didn’t get to have the wedding they wanted, they may plan this same wedding for you. In both scenarios, their input will overshadow your wishes and you’ll end up with a wedding that doesn’t even feel like yours.
Professional Wedding Planner You would hire a professional to fix the plumbing in your house, to take care of the health of your pets, to dry clean your clothing, and so on. Why would you skimp and not hire a professional when it comes to the most important day of your life? A professional planner has experience with weddings, and will make sure that your needs are met.
Refer to various other writing pieces penned by this author covering things including erp software systems and barcode system.
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